When you think of what your circle of friends consists of , is your best friend a male ? Not including our favorite gay friends but rather a straight one. Can you trust him ? Do you secretly have a crush on him and put him on the friend-zone just to keep him near? Or do you truly believe that he is a genuine male friend who doesn’t think of having intimacy with you on a deeper level?
According to the book I’m currently reading (can’t mention secret bitch source), there is no such thing as a male best friend.
Could it be that all they want is to secretly get it in, and are waiting for the perfect moment to take the home run?
In my own experience, my small circle of friends do consist more of male than female friends. Why? Well I crave their honesty, the safety vibe I get from them, and the annoying free voice they have. They are the older brothers I never had. The ones you can be yourself with without judgement, without fear , without rejection.
What do you get out of male friends? You get friendship at its simplest form. I’m talking about loving them without being IN Love with them. You get an insight of what it means to share moments with the opposite sex without intimacy. BEST FEELING IN THE WORLD !!! To know that both of you enjoy each others company without any rules or strings attached.
What does this mean? NO jealousy, NO drama, NO bullshit.
For male besties who are reading this: If you do have other intentions she knows about them and just isn’t brave enough to confront you about it cause it would be awkward ! Remember, females have “woman’s intuition” so just come clean, and who knows- it doesn’t hurt to try -just ask!!!
This does not pertain to those who would like their best friend as a boyfriend, or to those who consider them “friends with benefits.” That topic is for another day 😉
Fancy Nancy 